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Saturday, June 3, 2023

It takes more than 30 seconds to post on social media, but you're too busy for a phone call?


 We have all heard the phrase 'I'm too busy' when trying to connect with a loved one. As a society, we have become so engulfed in our constant need to be busy that we have lost touch with the importance of relationships. It is heartbreaking to think that some may have lost their lives simply because a brief phone call was deemed too inconvenient, while social media posts take much longer.


We often see people posting constantly on social media, claiming to have no time for anything else. Yet, as soon as their loved one reaches out for a phone call, they use the excuse 'I'm too busy.' This hypocrisy is unacceptable. We must hold ourselves accountable for the consequences of our actions, especially when it comes to neglecting those closest to us.


Neglecting loved ones is a serious issue that should not be taken lightly. It is important to make time for the people who matter most in our lives. We need to learn to prioritize people over the constant need to be busy. At the end of the day, it is the quality of our relationships that matter, not the quantity of tasks we can complete.


In conclusion, the next time someone uses the excuse 'I'm too busy' when neglecting a loved one, think about the real consequences of their actions. We should not let our constant need for being busy be an excuse for neglecting the people that are most important to us. Let's make a conscious effort to prioritize relationships above being busy.


Friday, June 2, 2023

Facebook Page Name Change, Freemium Facebook Community, Updates and etc.


Have to update the Facebook Page. Want it to be more of a brand page thing than anything really!

Hoping to change it from Steph / Stephone to Steph1official.com or anything CLOSE.

To get all Facebook Posts, just follow my New Page that's close to monetization: https://bit.ly/steph1publicfb



NEW: Facebook Group & others : There will be several FREEMIUM groups for those who support me and my vision!

Facebook: https://bit.ly/steph1fbgroup

Snapchat: ADD: https://bit.ly/steph1snapchat DM a 100 Emoji to be added onto the Steph1official Shared group!! You can freely upload to your hearts content!!!

Clubhouse: Coming SOON.

Discord: Premium Only (FREE TO THE FIRST 1,000 SUBSCRIBERS OF THE UN-6:29 COMMUNITY) : Registration: https://bit.ly/steph1product Freemium: Weekly Updates. UN6:29 -> Instant Updates. Premium everything.



What's New? 

1.) New Blog Categories -

A: (Steph1official is Here To Help You Pick Up The Broken Glass) A self help and healing. You'll also see my written poetry and art.

B:(Let Steph1official be your VOICE! Friends don't let Friends die!) My story and push to find those struggling with mental health. It begins where my own "friends" told me "We all have shit going on... I'm busy". All I needed was ONE person to take my call.... meanwhile I took everyones calls. 

2.) Mobile Site Version For the Steph1official Members

3.) Directory Registration for the UN 6:29 Community

4.) Monthly raffles to reward those for being amazing supporters. 

5.) Phone app still in development. For now you can save the websites to your home screen





Thursday, June 1, 2023

You wouldn't take 60 seconds out of your day to prevent your friend from dying? Why didn't you pick up the phone for me?

Let Steph1official be your VOICE! Friends don't let Friends die!








 Suicide is a growing concern in our society and can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity, or background. It is a complex issue that has far-reaching consequences and can have a devastating impact on individuals, families, and communities. Often, those who contemplate taking their own lives do so in silence - hiding their feelings, despair, and pain from those around them.

With the amount of time you spend on social media. Are you really telling your friend you're that busy to just pick up the phone and ask where are you right now send me the address? 

Are you really that busy that you can't pick up the phone and just say "Hey I am all ears, let's talk about this"


The root causes of suicide can be many; depression, anxiety, trauma, and substance abuse, among others, can all play a role. The warning signs can also be varied and may include changes in behavior, appetite, sleep patterns, and a sense of hopelessness and worthlessness. It's essential to recognize these signs early to help prevent a tragedy.


There are many ways to prevent suicide, including seeking help from a mental health professional, talking to a trusted friend, joining a support group, or finding positive ways to cope with stress. It's important to remember that there is always help available if you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts or deep emotional pain. There is no shame in reaching out for help, and doing so can be an act of courage and strength.


Suicide is a serious concern that requires our attention as a society. By understanding the root causes and warning signs, we can work together to prevent it. Let's create a culture of openness, acceptance, and support that encourages individuals to seek help when they need it. A listening ear, a gentle hand, and a compassionate heart can go a long way in preventing suicide and saving lives.



YES, MYSELF, STEPH1OFFICIAL have survived suicide attempts. YES I HAVE BATTLED MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES FOR MORE THAN A DECADE! I DON'T JUST GUESS YOUR PAIN, FRUSTRATION, LONELINESS AND HURT, I FEEL IT! I FEEL YOU! I UNDERSTAND YOU! I LOVE YOU!

But the most heartbreaking thing I EVER heard from "FRIENDS"? ...."Everyone has things going on, I'm busy."

Meanwhile they're on social media EVERYDAY posting about being there for friends, and even HAVING the audacity of sharing Suicide Awareness!

Some of them are subscribed to this very newsletter!

NO MORE!!!! NO MORE OF THAT!!! THESE PEOPLE WHO ARE PRETENDERS NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. PUT ON BLAST!!! PEOPLE ARE OUT HERE HURTING AND ALONE!!! I AM HERE FOR YOU!!! IT'S TIME TO STAND UP FOR THOSE WHO CAN'T SPEAK!!!

 LET STEPH1OFFICIAL BE YOUR VOICE! FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS DIE!!!!



EVEN IF YOU DON'T KNOW ME FROM A CAN OF PAINT, I LOVE YOU
- STEPH1OFFICIAL.

When Lies Shatter Your Heart and Soul


 This is my introduction of a self-healing love I call:  "Insight With #Steph1official"

The pain that comes with being lied to can cut deep, leaving you with an unbearable ache that can be hard to take. In today's world, where it seems like everyone has an agenda, and nobody is honest, it can be hard to know who to trust. When you open yourself up to others, you leave yourself vulnerable to their lies and deceit.


As I write these words from the depths of my soul, I know that many others out there have experienced similar pain. Perhaps you, too, have been hurt by someone you thought you could trust. It's hard not to question everything when someone you believed in proves to be a liar. You begin to wonder, what did I ever mean to them? Did they ever care about me at all?


The memories of those lies can haunt you, leaving you trapped in a tornado of confusion and emotion. You start to question whether anyone is ever honest with you, and as a result, you become guarded. The fear of being hurt again can keep you from opening up to others in the future.


But it's important to remember that not everyone is a liar. There are genuine people out there who truly care about you and want to see you thrive. It's up to you to seek out those people and to choose to trust them. It won't be easy, and there will be times when your guard is up, but it's worth it in the end.


In the end, the pain of being lied to can feel like a never-ending storm, but the sun will eventually come out again. It will take time to heal, but you will be able to pick up the pieces of your shattered heart and soul. Keep an open mind and an open heart, and trust that there are good people out there who will never lie to you.






Saturday, May 27, 2023

Black People Can't Swim? What's So Funny? I Want To Laugh






Do you believe that racism is not a problem? Consider this example: The actions of those who promote white supremacy have made it more difficult for our grandparents to pursue careers in real estate. Despite being able to enter the industry themselves, they helped establish segregation laws that restricted housing options, lowered property values, and prevented people of color from attending quality schools, including law schools. 


Consider this scenario: Your grandparent helped send your uncle to a prestigious law school, only for him to become an attorney who focuses on prosecuting people of color in the same neighborhoods where redlining laws have had a disproportionate impact. 


Furthermore, some individuals have the audacity to perpetuate harmful stereotypes, such as the belief that Black people cannot swim. However, this stereotype has been used to justify the lack of access to swimming pools in communities of color. It is likely that your grandparent is familiar with this issue.

Racism is a problem that has plagued our society for centuries, and unfortunately, it continues to exist in many forms today. Despite the progress that has been made in the fight against racism, there are still those who deny its existence or downplay its impact.

One of the most insidious forms of racism is institutional racism, which is embedded in our laws, policies, and practices. Redlining, as mentioned in the sliver above, is a prime example of institutional racism. This practice, which was rampant in the mid-20th century, involved denying loans and other financial services to people of color, effectively segregating them in certain neighborhoods and preventing them from building wealth through home ownership.


This type of institutional racism has had long-lasting effects on communities of color, leading to disparities in education, health, and economic opportunity. For example, the lack of access to quality education, which was a direct result of redlining and other discriminatory practices, has led to a persistent achievement gap between white students and students of color.


Another form of racism is individual racism, which is manifested in the beliefs and actions of individuals. This can take many forms, from overt acts of discrimination to subtle biases that affect the way people are treated in everyday life. For example, the stereotype that Black people can't swim, as mentioned in the sliver, is a harmful and untrue belief that has been used to justify the lack of access to swimming pools and other aquatic facilities in communities of color.


Individual racism can also lead to acts of violence and hate, as we have seen in recent years with the rise of white supremacist groups and hate crimes against people of color. It is important to acknowledge that these acts of violence are not isolated incidents, but rather a symptom of a larger problem of systemic racism that continues to affect our society.


In conclusion, racism is a problem that cannot be ignored or downplayed. It is a complex issue that requires all of us to work together to address, through education, advocacy, and action. We must confront the institutional and individual forms of racism that exist in our society and work towards building a more just and equitable future for all.

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